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Separating…what next?

If you are sure that your marriage has ended and there is no chance for reconciliation, you will need to follow the divorce procedure to obtain a decree absolute. You can find more information about the divorce process here https://www.gov.uk/divorce If both parties agree to the divorce and the reasons why, getting a divorce legally finalised should take approximately 6...Read More
Tolerance can stop a war

Tolerance can stop a war

What is your threshold for tolerance? There is poem from ancient India called the Mahabharat. If you are familiar with the Mahabharat, you will know that it has influenced Indian thought for centuries and much has been learnt from it. The Mahabharat is about a war between brothers; a war that started when one brother, Duryodhana’s, pride was hurt. His...Read More

Alternative dispute resolution (ADR) or court?

There is no simple answer and a lot will depend on your priorities, circumstances and what you want to achieve at the end of the process. What is ADR? You could google it and get an answer, but it may also confuse you due to the vast range of terms used under the same banner. Imagine these two situations: The...Read More

Why mediation?

When I first came across mediation, I immediately thought the concept was one that people would surely consider before going through the courts. However, I soon found that the demand (although growing) is less than the need. The need is there as the Family Courts are overwhelmed with cases and if more people looked for a mediator before a solicitor,...Read More